When parents in Arizona go through a divorce, determining custody arrangements is often one of the most challenging aspects of the process. Courts aim to make decisions that align with the best interests of the children involved, and shared parenting time can be an optimal solution when both parents are committed to cooperating. 

With this in mind, there are a number of positive actions you can take to make a persuasive case for shared parenting time:

• Demonstrate your willingness to cooperate — One of the key factors that Arizona courts consider is the ability of both parents to communicate and cooperate effectively regarding the children’s needs. To show the court that you are willing to work collaboratively with your ex-spouse, take proactive steps such as regularly discuss your children’s schedules, educational needs, and extracurricular activities with your ex-spouse. Be willing to adjust your plans to accommodate your children’s needs and your ex-spouse’s schedule. Additionally, demonstrate an ability to resolve conflicts amicably.

• Establish a stable home environment — To assure the court that your home is conducive to your children’s well-being, focus on maintaining a consistent daily routine. This includes setting regular meal times, homework schedules, bedtimes, and other activities that contribute to a sense of security and predictability. Ensure that your home is safe and meets the physical, emotional, and educational needs of your children. Being actively involved in their education, such as attending parent-teacher conferences, helping with homework and supporting their academic endeavors, will further demonstrate you will provide a stable environment.

• Present a comprehensive parenting plan — A well-thought-out parenting plan is a critical component of a strong case for shared physical custody. This plan should clearly outline when the children will be with each parent, including specific details for holidays, vacations, and special occasions. Additionally, your parenting plan should include guidelines on how major decisions regarding the children’s education, healthcare, and extracurricular activities will be made. By establishing a predetermined method, you can prevent conflicts from arising.

• Show active involvement in the children’s lives — Provide evidence of your attending school events, sporting activities and other extracurricular events. Handling daily tasks like preparing meals, helping with homework, and managing bedtime routines further underscores your role as a committed parent. Emotional support is also vital; being available to listen to your children’s concerns and needs shows the court that you prioritize their well-being.

• Obtain character references — Gather testimonials from individuals who can attest to your parenting ability and commitment. These may include your children’s teachers, academic advisers, or athletic coaches, as well as neighbors, friends, and others who have witnessed your active role in parenting.

A skilled child custody attorney can be instrumental in presenting this evidence effectively in court.

At Clark & Schloss in Scottsdale, Arizona, we provide our clients with compassionate guidance in working to achieve the best outcome for our clients in child custody and parenting matters. Feel free to call us at 602-789-3497 or contact us online for a free consultation.