Tips for Maximizing Your Parenting Time After a Divorce
- posted: May 26, 2025
- Parenting Time
Arizona public policy is to encourage post-divorce arrangements in which children spend meaningful time with both parents. Unless they can agree on dividing parenting time, the spouses are required to propose a comprehensive plan setting out the child’s residential schedule. However, a court’s overriding concern is that the plan is in the child’s best interest. You need to meet this standard in order to secure frequent and meaningful contact with your child. That means adopting positive methods and strategies.
An Arizona parenting plan should include various logistical aspects such as your work schedule, travel commitments, the geographical distance between your new residence and the children’s schools, and provisions for holidays and vacations. Most critically, the plan should facilitate providing children with necessary guidance and emotional support. Even in friendly separations, consulting with a seasoned family law attorney can ensure that your parenting plan is practical both immediately and in the future. If parents cannot agree on a plan, the court may impose one that might not align with your preferences.
After the divorce, you might find it necessary to request a modification of the parenting time order if you feel it does not provide your adequate time with your children. You must support your request with evidence of consistent responsible behavior on your part. This includes punctuality during pickups and drop-offs, maintaining a polite relationship with your ex-spouse, refraining from negative comments about them in front of the children, and avoiding escalation of conflicts. It’s also wise to document any issues, such as the other parent’s tardiness or any reduction in your allotted parenting time.
Beyond formal court arrangements, increase your involvement in your child’s life by participating in their school and extracurricular activities. This can include joining the PTA, becoming a class parent, attending school events, leading scout troop or coaching a sports team. These roles not only enhance your bond with your child but also naturally extend your parenting time outside the structured schedule.
A skilled Arizona child custody attorney plays an active part in crafting a feasible parenting plan that maximizes your time with your children and that stands a good chance of receiving court approval. An experienced attorney can tailor your parenting plan to meet your children’s needs and to fit into your lifestyle and work commitments. They can also provide invaluable assistance in seeking modification of your parenting plan if justified by the circumstances.
The attorneys at Clark & Schloss Family Law, P.C. in Scottsdale are ready to advise you about parenting time rights during or after a divorce. Call us at 602-789-3497 or contact us online for a consultation.